Tuesday, January 11, 2011

WE DON'T ALWAYS GET WHAT WE WANT, BUT THERE MUST BE A REASON BEHIND THAT

It is natural for people to dream about something and want everything that they dreamed to happen. But it’s not always happen, right? Sometimes, we just have the feeling to be another person because we don’t get what we want the most. I myself sometimes feel the same way. But when we don’t get what we want just tell ourselves to look for the bright side. 
Sometimes, we want to be pretty. We always envy of others for being so beautiful. We feel that their life are perfect enough to born as pretty women. We always ask ourselves, ‘Why am I not born pretty?’ But look at the positive side, there must be a reason why we’re not born as a beautiful girl. 
Another times, we always busy searching for a good-looking guy to be our perfect man. When we were younger, we dreamed to marry a ‘prince charming’. We always ask ourselves, ‘Why can’t I ever get one?’. But then again, look at the positive side, there must be a reason behind that.
Beside that, we always fight to be the NUMBER 1 especially in examination. When we don’t get to be the number 1 and what make it worst is when our result sucks and we get scold by our parents, we always ask ourselves, ‘Why am I not smart like others?’, and again look at the positive side.
Lastly, we always get jealous of others who have a happy, rich and successful family. When we look at ourselves, we only have an ordinary family and we found nothing more special about our lives. We always ask ourselves, ‘Why can’t I be someone else?’
But, did we ever asked ourselves about every little good things that ever happened in our lives? We may not be pretty or gorgeous like others, but it’s not very important. What necessary is to have a beautiful heart and just be ourselves. We may not get a good-looking guy, but we may have a nice guy who will love us with all of his heart and take a good care of us. We may not be the NUMBER 1, but that doesn’t mean we are useless. We may not have a perfect family and life, but we have all the persons that love us. Our mum and dad, brothers and sisters, and all our friends. Life is not what we always expect it to be. When we don’t get or achieve what we dreamed of, just look at the bright side and try to improve ourselves. We may not good at one thing, but we may good at other things, we just can’t find it yet. Be grateful for what we have and for who we are and we can always smile:) May be one day, when we wake up from bed, there’s something really great happen to us, someday, who knows? No one knows. I guess I have wrote all the things that I want to say for today. And I’m very tired to write anymore of words. That’s all for today. Chill:DDD 
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